Could It Be Better?

“That is how it has always been done” I know! But spare a few minutes to hear me out. I have always considered myself an innovative person. I have always thought I was innovative, and if you know me, you would also agree. But even if you are not innovative, …

2016 in Numbers

For those who do not know, I kept track of a number of things in my life during the year 2016. I did this for two reasons. One was just for the fun of it, and the other was for personal statistics. I do not remember the woman who said …

About 2016

Let me share with you some thoughts and facts about my year 2016.   The Single Best Thing that Happened Since 2012 or so, my friend Kevin has been calling me “Uncle Oki”. But in 2016, I officially became an uncle with the birth of my younger sisters first birth. …

Unintentionally Unavailable

Before I explain the meaning of “unintentionally unavailable“, let me brief you first. In the part of the world where I come from, it is generally believe that men should always do the chasing. Some even believe that it is a taboo for a woman to “chase” a man. But …